Pre-Wedding ripping out of hair!

Hello!
So I haven't posted in a Very long time; this is because I am preparing for my wedding which is in... One WEEK!
In the last year I have had many difficulties and life lessons learned. With all these difficulties I learned a lot what makes me well, Me.
I have always known that I am a fun loving, social, mature, adventurous person. I love being around friends and being social; I love having fun and going on adventures. This hasn't changed since I could crawl and never will.
Something I've always loved was my hair long. I have strawberry blond hair but with a twist. I find every color in my hair: black, brown, red, blond, bleach blond, etc. People have always told me I have beautiful hair or would ask how I got the color. It's natural! My hair is super straight. It hates to be curled, but curling is too much work anyways. I love my hair long. I've had it short twice in my life and it just didn't... seem like me.
Another thing about my hair is there is 4 lucky people that have my same exact hair. Why? Because I believe  in charity. I have given my hair to a program called Locks of Love ever since I was 6 years old. Christmas 2011 was my most recent donation. I donated 12 inches. My hair has grown 10 inches since then. My goal has been give my hair 8 times in my life, but I doubt I'll stop there.
With Giving away my hair I'm also very charitable. I remember when I was around 5 or 6 I threw a Halloween Party and we "Trick or Treated for Food." I donated a carload of food to the food bank. I can't give up the opportunity to help people.
I have always loved baking. I used to bake anything my parents would buy, nothing stayed on the shelves long. I got a job at a Ice Cream shop/chocolate factory. I learned how to decorate cakes, make chocolate, caramel and chocolate covered strawberries. There I found my hobby. I love decorating cakes. I have only taken one class and I have even surprised myself.

Of course I've done many more cakes, I just don't have all the pictures on my computer yet.

I am a fighter. I fight for what I believe and for the people I care about. I fight for truth and things I'm passionate about. I stand my ground and am very stubborn. With this wedding I've been very relaxed. I've only gone Bridezilla a couple times, and the people deserved it. Weddings are about celebrating the Bride and Groom. Celebrating they found each other and they are taking on the responsibility of becoming one and becoming adults.
So what if they decided to get married young or old, where it is, what day it is. All that matters that if you need to be there to support them you are. Especially family. Family means unconditional love. It means you go to your brother's soccer games and he goes to your softball games. It means helping them when they need it and being excited when they move away even if your sad they are leaving. It means going to their wedding and not commenting on the things that you're not 100% happy about. It means helping with the wedding and making it less stressful for them. It means getting to know their new spouse before judging.
I must say, I believe if you TRULY support your family and their choice to get married you don't complain that you have to go, that it's inconvenient.
NEWS FLASH!- All weddings are inconvenient. not everyone can come and people have to get off work. My sister isn't going to make it to my wedding. It breaks my heart but I know she supports me and I understand. Living far away has it's pro's and con's. I love her more than anything and I understand. That's what family is. Understanding. This is My Hubby's day and mine. We get to be in the spot light for now and that's the way it should be. Take turns to be the one everyone is talking about and being excited for. I will go all Pissy if someone get's in our way. :)

I know this is a long weird post, but this post is mainly to release all my stress to be able to finish up the last bit of work so I can enjoy my time, our time, our spotlight time.
Family is there for me and I am also there for them. I fight with my siblings, I get upset with them, but if anyone says something bad about them I'd kill them. They are mine and I love them.
I hope I can get to know my new family well and get along with them so I can feel the same way about them as I do my own.

Thanks for reading my Pre-Wedding chaos. Back to getting things together!